Aayusha Giri
4 min readMar 1, 2023

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How to survive at the most difficult times of your life?

There comes time in everybody’s life when everything seems to be so difficult and challenging. No matter how hard we try sometimes things doesn’t work for us, we fail and we become so much frustrated that life looks more and more harder than it ever was. Some get loss in their business while some are trying hard to start a business but having no growth or capital. Some may be struggling hard for life, some may be failing in multiple attempts in their dream job, some may not be doing that well which they want to. There could be so many things in a person’s life where people feel like quitting. I in my personal experience had so many of those kind of moments where things seemed to be impossible.

So, the question is how do we survive the most difficult times in our life? Look, its just one life we live and it is so precious. We know that we want to achieve so many things in life but first and foremost have to accept the fact that struggle is the part of life. The hard and difficult times are there so that it can shape you to the person you become. Have you seen the greatest personalities and how strong are they that nobody can shake them, its because they have been through the most difficult moments of their life, struggled so hard in their life which shaped them to the strong personalities they have. So, just accept that will come difficult times in life where you need motivation, support and backup. And for that all you have to do is be strong. Don’t give up till your last breath. The sun rises after the dark night, the flowers blossom again in spring, the sky is clear after heavy rain, so always be optimistic and keep in mine that nothing is permanent in life, neither is our problems nor those hardest moments. Everything in life happens for a reason, a good reason which you will definitely know later on in life and which you would be thankful for. A bad time is teaching you good lessons. Instead of focusing on what you don’t have or what you can’t do, focus on what you can. Always look for the possibilities rather than complaining about things that’s not even in your control. Sometimes good things don’t happen because god has planned the best thing for you. Struggle and difficult times are just the experiences in life which will make the achievement more exciting and worth it. The pleasure and proud moment you have when you achieve something after a great struggle is the most wonderful and incredible moment you will ever experience.

Hence, when you’re feeling down and thing that life is really very difficult and you are at your lowest, just back yourself up. Maybe take some alone time and think that this is not your limit. This small thing can’t block me from my goals. Tell yourself I won’t give up till my last breath. Always know that pain is temporary but the regret after giving up is permanent. It can be a bad day or a bad experience but not the bad life. Remember how far you have come in your life. Compare yourself with the one you were ten years ago and visualise how far you have come with all your struggles. Sometimes in the marathon of life we just run after our dreams but forget to celebrate the achievements and accomplishments you have come across so far. Remember how much quality you have, if one thing doesn’t work you have millions of other things to do. If you fail, find the reason why you failed and try to improve your mistakes next time. Its normal to fail. It doesn’t matter how many times you failed, what matters is that you failed but never gave up unit and unless you achieved it. Mind is a great tool, greatest of everything. It does what you tell it do do, if you think positive it will start thinking positive. If you say I am tired it will start making you feel tired. So in your most difficult times just tell your mund that it’s nothing, its just a small blow of wind which can’t shake me because I’m strong enough. Keep moving, don’t stop. Always look the possibilities in everything and know that difficult times will shape you to the strongest personality and if you ace it you will be stepping a lot forward in your life, so never ever shake yourself in the difficult times and never give up. You are the most genius, talented and hardworking person and nobody in this world scan shake you if you believe in yourself and if you are strong enough to deal with this then I bet you, no time will gonna be difficult for you because you know that you can do it and you are so positive and focused that no negative things can shake you! I hope this writing would help you ace the most difficult times with grace and power.

Thank you for reading this article!

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Aayusha Giri

"Writing is my passion and I love to share my experiences and I hope my viewers love reading my articles & hope it creates a positive change in this world.”